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When not able to convince your skills

 So, we are in the mid of a global pandemic and I see lots of jobseekers coming up and asking publically that they have lost and are trying to find some reasonable jobs now.  I see this as an opportunity. To live your dreams. If you are still looking after and applying to many jobs for months and months, please don't do it. This will only make you stress more.  Just write those things down. where your mind goes and you will be like free.. Yaay! So I  I tried doing this thing for years now and I believe this works. This blog was started in 2009 when people were having Nokia mobiles and I was writing this blog. Bit now, things have changed a lot;. now I am still there because I did not work on my goals. I did not focus on what really mattered,. instead, I let it go .. All of it, my ego, my sentiments, no desire for ever to acquire ever., but now, the things have change, I have a daughter who is telling me to be emotional, and being emotional drives decisions.s decision...

Strong Call to action

There are endless possibilities of making a successful venture out of your skills and passion. Its more about taking your thoughts into action. when you are able to express yourself  But when you are not able to express, then what? You have to take into consideration your past experiences look where you want to go. And let go of all the worries and everrlything. Just flow where your heart and mind take you. The heart is never wrong. But wait you must. For the right moment  I decided to write a book. My book.

When my EGO was shattered

 I realised that it makes a great amount of work to be proud of yourself. You have to be different and better from your surrounding in terms of a many different things. I was also high with my ego, until yesterday, when it was shattered by a mere presentation. So, what's in a presentation? Well its not in the presentation as a whole. It was more than that. I realised that all the hardwork that was done previously has been in vain, when I could not even speak English at a level of an English Speaking country. but more than just English, it was also more about framing the thoughts, which I was clearly not able to do. Then we drill down to thought processing. There's not a lot we can do it in a day, because it has become a part of our personalities. What we can do is to be conscious of our actions and words eveery time we speak and act accordingly.

The world is changing faster than your thoughts

 What you are able to see today is just a small piece of the things happened in the past, some of which are inter related. If you are seeing this in the media or reading about something, it is probably that you are already Iiving in the past. For eg., A small thing for today's world is a Mobile phone, everyone owns one, but that was a process involving many decades in development. So how do you become different? Well, let's think of some legends like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk. They all had one thing in common, and many other famous people, had the same trait. To do something new, that was never done.  Now let me frame that from a very common perspective, you want to be successful. But what things are you doing to be successful?? Tja  answer would be probably you might be saying I am working hard. But working hard on what and how?  If you get the answer, note is down and then  see around yourself what other people around you are doing around...

When the mind is free

So I working with this organization that is into providing services. A lot of things happen when you work with a startup company, and specially when its start of your career. I was young, dynamic with loads of energy to do a lot. Always on the toes to do things I always wanted to do for a company I wanted to join. And since it was the first job, I always wanted to put in more efforts. It was like a deep emotional connection. The Network in which I frequently communicated was happy to know that they are being heard. Also I would do everything to satisfy their expectations which normally a very good company does.  It was perhaps because my mind was free and I could focus a lot better than my peers.  And then came a dark time in my life, I fell prey to mental illness and my condition worsened to the point I had to be admitted to a rehab center. After All of those things happened and I was back to my job, everything changed. I was already emotionally broken down into millions of p...

My first flight

Hi! It was the year 2008. The year of Scare for the US Financial System :( But it was new and exciting for me:) I was going to college! Wee haa! You know what does it mean going to college? Ask a kid whos just learned walking, how it feels. Or ask a kid whos just learned riding a bicycle. They will be doing those for hours without getting tired at all! That feeling gives me goosebumps. I am excited to be going to college! I will be a grown up now.  The best part - No more uniforms! Yes, the civil dress code! Now I am gonna live like a king and wear whatever I like. At least I will be staying away from the family, but I am gonna have a lot of cool friends just like me. And I will be staying in the Hostel. I have trained myself enough to wash my own clothes and iron them, to be precise. Everything looks good! Life's going to be the best for the next 4 years! And then the day came the counselling result - I am gonna join NIT Agartala. I know its the capital of Tripura (honestly, I did...

Joining the College

It was July 23, 2008, 0000 hrs. My dad and I just came from Bhopal after submitting the counselling at MANIT Bhopal. We were excited about the prospective colleges that I applied. I was imagining that I joined a college of National repute and associating all the stories I ever heard about the life at a reputed institute. Afterall, it was a dedicated effort of more than 5 years that was bearing the fruits. The earlier day, I was of the opinion of joining Aeronautical Engineering from any institute, than joining an institute of reputation. But their fee structure did not allow me to do so. I also explored Marine Engineering and how it could impact my earnings in the future. But then I received a letter saying I passed the examination without appearing in it. So I dropped Marine Engineering. I applied for Anna University too, after searching the University rankings online at a cyber Cafe. My mom and I were also about leave for Chennai soon. But their demands exceeded the expectations we h...

Competition

The Generation Z has been hearing this word since they were born. Its not new to them. THey have made it a part of their life. perhaps its one of the most common word. And where did it originate from? Well its relatively new for the generation X and created by Generation Y, The people born in 80's and 90's respectively. The generation X is the ones who were born with playing to friends around always, making things at home, no bid cities and no more complex life.  The Generation Y, they are the ones who were born in the 90's, watching TV and listening to music on the first Ipod and the ones to use the first iPhones. I believe they are the ones who creates the need of competition. There always was a need of economic push for the betterment of the country. The west realised it was in their best interest to bring globalization and take it to the peak. So, golbalization is a term technically used to represent that the globe is one and the world needs no boundaries. So true, and ...

All the lies you ever heard your whole life.

Why were you soo much excited to see the Television for the first time?? Which shows do you remember?? Okay, So perhaps you may also remember some of the Ads in the TV??  Why do you want specifically that Soft drink?? Do you need or do you want?? The very Basic question, but taught in the very later life. Why does economy exist? Are we making our lives simpler or more complex??  I was stuck at a traffic signal for a while and thought about the very Basic nature of humans, why do we need traffic signals? Why can't we coordinate amongst ourselves and avoid traffic jams? Why do we need someone else to day what should we do?? What should we watch?? Let's see example of TV. You are watching what the person on the screen wants you to see.  Why?? Are you not mature enough to make your own decisions and see and do what you really want to do?? I mean you really wanted to become a singer in life, but you end up watching a reality TV show of Sing...

Some unfulfilled wishes

There are some wishes.... unfulfilled.. So what?? That's good. What would have happened if all of our wishes fulfilled?? Would we be happier then?? Why do we wish for something?? Why do we have desire to get something in Life.. It's good that whatever happened.. good that it happened with your wish... Even better if not as per your wish.. because things are going to take place.. no matter what you wish.. some wishes shall remain unfulfilled..  otherwise there shall be no more space left for anything else.. Do good.. and things shall come back in an unexpected way.. It's TRUE that whatever you give to the world.. comes back to you.. I have seen people having a lot of money, but many things are there which are the result of their deeds, and they shall never realise that. Because if they did realise, they would not have acted that way. Also, choose your colleagues and friends wisely, coz they may be dumb enough to make you dumb. The world doesn't need s...

I am just the average of what I believe

I am just the average of the People I met, The things I believe and the things I do. I am average of what I think I can do. If I sometimes think way High Positive and way Low Negative, my output will be average. So I need to weigh more positive, more reasons to accomplish, more reasons to believe, more high standards to Live.!

Stress: You wanna Live Someone else's Life

Hey Fish! Why you want to climb the Tree? Where as you are a Fast swimmer. Your Life is different. Nature has designed you in a different way. Your Goals are different, path is different, Your Strenghts are different, You are different. Though you are born amongst monkeys, but you are ot a monkey indeed. So what You are different. So what you are not like them. Why you want to become like them? When you are more powerful and More talented then them. Just imagine, Can they do something you are good at?  Can they beat you in your Domain? They are demotivating You, as they they have already given up what you have already achieved. Stop being like them. "Run You Own Show" instead of becoming a part of their Game. If you work on your strenghts, the game will be very easy, because you are good at it. You will enjoy it, you will grow exponentially, there will be no stress, life will be much easier.  

Be Grateful that you have a Life

Be Grateful for what you have... What should you be grateful for as a Human...?? Be grateful that you have a life.. There were billions of people have lost their lives on this planet, but you at least have Life today.. So be grateful.. If you still feel down, be grateful that you got Internet connection and a Facebook account.. And a free will to scroll down this post, if you wish.. while millions do not have access to it.. So be grateful.. If you still feel down.. At least you can understand English.. You got a 'Degree'.. While millions don't. You got eyes for reading this sentence.. Many others don't.. So be grateful.. If still Not, at Least be Grateful that you are not a Camel... If you are a Camel.. At Least be grateful that you are not in Australia.. PS: If you are a Camel in Australia.. At least Be grateful that you shall no Longer be a part of the world where Humans consider them as arrogantly superior.. After Googling some of the Fac...

Determination

As kids, we have often read stories of Ramanaya and Mahabharata that a determined person shall find his way. There been 14 years of van vaas for Ram and 14 years of expiration for Pandavas.  All of them waited for their turn to show up, with one goal in mind.. they want to achieve something.. and they did it. What would have happened if 14 years passed by and Ram did not get his Sita nor if Pandavas not their Kingdom?

Time or Numbers?

Happy New Year Everyone! This topic has never been debated, So I can comfortably put my views here, no Third Party involved. The Year on your Calendar has changed and probably, only the numbers have changed. The other things have remained the same. I wanted to put things straight.. If numbers then how many nos..?? I want to put a very important phenomenon happening right now with you. How long are you going to Live?? Probably this question will stun you. How can I say how Long, but surprisingly I can say the average age of human beings in the planet. But not exactly mine... that is the number Game... So let's talk about the economic paradox. Economy should grow, let's say at 5% annually. And it does. Things that costed nil 50 years back are now bearing a price Tag. Nobody imagined even water could be sold in packets. It's just a matter of choice?? The governments aren't concerned about whether you have a heart attack or die of the most common 10 things m...